Why starting is so hard.

Did you ever find yourself in a situation where you wanted to change something in your life and had the perfect plan in your mind to do it – but you ended up doing nothing? I am pretty sure everyone of us has been in this situation not too long ago.

It can be very frustating to be motivated to do something but not getting into action. It is probably even harder than if you just deal with your surroundings and not question anything. Did I say probably? It definitley is harder. But what can you do about it. You feel this inner desire to achive something greater than what you already got. Something meaningful as the successful mentors in the books you’ve read would call it. But where should you start? Should you start your own blog, start an affiliate website or sit down with friends and think of the nex billion dollar business idea? You probably start questioning yourself. If you are better than other people, if you diserve to achieve your dreams, and so on and so on.

Like every mentor tells you, you are the best. Try to become the best version of yourself. But is that really true? I mean everybody can become the best version of themself. But can everyone become incredible successful?

Personally I think the reason why we don’t start is that we are afraid of failing and not getting any social approval for what we do and than we think we would feel bad if we gave up on some social events in order to start something and would fail. The chances are high that you fail. The chances are high that you will fail a lot of times before you end up achieving even minimal success. Is it worth trying? Is it better to just stay where you are and within social norms and an average life?

For me definitley not!

In my opinion you should start seeing life as a game. Personally I use the comparison to GTA as I used to play this video game a lot while growing up. I think it might even be one of the most popular games in the world. Why was this game so successful? As a child I always dreamed of a game like GTA where you could even do more than there. Like the real world as a video game. Why is that? Maybe because I was afraid to do things or try things that I would do playing that I wouldn’t do in real life. For the most things there might be an obvious reason as GTA is not really conform with most of our ethical and moral rules in our society. Fuck the rules. But I hope you get what I mean. Imagine a GTA like a mixture of it with the game of life or SIMS. Why are people enjoying playing this game so much?

Because they fucking do things they are afraid of doing in real life. They suddendly become brave cool guys and run away from the real life. Look at what you do in GTA. You go to the barbor shop – Do you get the average hair cut? Fuck no, you go for something crazy. And you love it. You run around and you are hoping that everyone is looking at you and thinks what a men. Would anyone do this in real life of the people that play this game? For sure not! Same with clothes and cars. We love the game because we can do the things that we are afraifd of doing them in real life. We even get the same good feelings that we would get in real life – that is why those games are so addictive. In this game we would do everything to improve our character to the maximum potential. Why don’t most people do the same in real life? Because it is fucking hard and takes a lot of energy! Would you be happy if you would do the same? Probably yes. You would regret less. ALways remember that you only live once. Why not living to your full potential and giving life the best you have? Take care of yourself, buidl yourself up, learn, develop meaningful relationships and do business. Make money, solve problems and get paid for it. Take opportunities as they come along the way. Take fucking action! I will prove you that taking massive action will lead to you making radical development and you will even attract more opportunities and see things you never saw in this way before.

See the life as a game and improve yourself every day. Also enjoy yourself and don’t go to hard on yourself. Take breaks, make mistakes but keep ging and learn. The most important point here might actually be to take action – and that is where we get back to the topic of this article. Taking action is the way to start. It is the hardest part but it is the only part that ever will make you achieving something. How much do we love looking at the 100m sprinters and there effortless competition for only a couple of seconds. We just see those seconds and imagine beeing in their shoes and doing this for a living. We blame it on genetics and doping that we are not there. But that most of them are just training hard and pushing their potential. THe hours of work that they put in before getting to the biggest stages. The sacrifies they make every day. We don’t see them. We don’t see success and life from a rational perspective. We like following our bad and easy internal narrative that keeps us calm and has excuses for everything. That’s just human.

Writing this article was fun even though I am not a good writer and my english isn’t where it should be. At least I did it. Take action. Take 10x action and you will achieve whatever you want to achieve. If you start by changing your mindset to see the world and your life as a game, and focus on the things you can control. I will garantee you that opportunities or the what and how will solve themselfes. The most important thing is to know your why. Why do you want to do this all? Why do you exist? What is your mission? Try to figure it out for you by thinking of it as you would in a game of GTA. Who do you want to be? Try it and we can share our ideas in the next blog.

Until then, take massive action!

Your Mr Lemmpire

London 2018